Seeing Mom light up at the prospect of taking a road trip, we pivoted toward making it happen.  She hasn’t been back to our hometown since Dad’s decline began to take priority over ten years ago. My girlfriend goes with us and another girlfriend and husband will join us for dinner.
When dad passed away, Mom thought it might take her about five years before she’d be ready to take a road trip. A year and a half later, she is already ready. Her memories will be stimulated as we make new ones celebrating her birthday. 
How readily can you change plans? Can you pivot toward delight? Ki to Happiness makes new memories.