Month: May 2023

I had the pleasure and honor of working with a new client yesterday who has come from far away. While respecting confidentiality, I want to say how much I appreciate her sparkling nature. I remember being new in this big city after leaving my small island home long ago.

I was a big fish back there in that small pond. Here I am but a tiny minnow in the enormity of Seattle with many hungry sharks. Either way, we all keep swimming towards the Ocean of Oneness.

How big of fish are you in what size pond? Do you have enough room to swim? Ki to Happiness sparkles as she swims onward.

After our biggest class in our new studio space, Bob and I took a bike ride. When we got to our destination, I discovered my bike lock key missing. We managed to still enjoy our outing, albeit tempered by the lost item.

We retraced our route looking on the pavement on our way back, as I prayed for assistance from St. Anthony. We watched an interesting presentation by Charles Eisenstein, during which I fell into a light hypnotic trance. I stirred with a keen sense of exactly where to go, and I found the keys where they must have fallen from my fanny pack.

What helps you when you’ve lost something? how do you celebrate when you find it? Ki to Happiness asks for help and lets go enough to receive guidance for which she is ever grateful to St. Anthony for providing.

After morning classes, one of our students picked us up and took us to his son’s Vocal Point concert. We have delighted in watching and listening to him grow up. He’s about to go to college, and perhaps let go of his musical talent as he focuses on computer science.

The music they performed from my era explored the dynamics of young love and break ups which they performed with a combination of appropriate awkwardness and grace. It took me back to a simpler time. I’m relieved to have navigated those confusing years long ago, with the songs a tender souvenir.

What childhood talents have you kept alive as you have found your way in the adult world? What souvenirs do you keep from your early forays into romance? Ki to Happiness cherishes the souvenirs and talents that have contributed to becoming who I am today.

As we prepared to set out for our longest bike trip yet, fear put on the mask of irritation. We squabbled a bit over the route on the map app. Tones of voice were questioned.

When we got to our destinations 20 minutes later, safety replaced the mask. We each took responsibility for the irritation. We both acknowledged that riding our bikes is the most dangerous thing we do.

Are you able to see beyond irritation to the fear that is underneath? Can you take responsibility for the fear and find your way to safety? Ki to Happiness replaces fear with safety, by wearing helmets, following the rules of the road and recommended bike routes

We got out our wedding albums to share with the students in our morning class. One of the attendees enjoyed remembering with us our grand day. The photos reminded us of 10 more guests who are still in our lives, if at a great distance.

We took our memories with us as we set out to make some new ones. After class we took a bike ride on our anniversary gifts to each other and hung out near a stream in the sunshine. Returning home, we squeezed in some time for intimacy before the evening class.

How often do you look at your old photos? Who do they make you remember that are a great distance? Ki to Happiness remembers the love of all those photographed, whether they are near or far or no longer with us.

Today marks 21st anniversary of our wedding here in Seattle. There were 90 people gathered to celebrate us and support us in upholding our commitments. Only 13 are still with us, as others have passed away, moved on or fallen from our contact in the passage of time.

Our vows concluded with the statement that we intended to uphold them for “as long as possible“. Everyone laughed, as they got the punchline. 21 years later, we are still laughing.

What are you committed to for as long as possible? What support do you need to uphold that commitment? Ki to Happiness needs to thank our community for your support of our wedding vows.

My generation lost one of its icons with the passing of Tina Turner. Her legendary singing and dancing will continue to inspire many more generations to come. Her life story encourages us all to rise above all difficulties and use our talents to the fullest.

Her later years teach us to turn to our spiritual practices in order to face tragedy and loss. Even though she continued to sing rock ‘n’ roll, her Buddhist chanting soothed her soul. I will forever cherish my memories of her from my earliest introduction to Proud Mary all the way thru to her Nichiren Mantra offering.

Whose talents have inspired your whole life? Who’s heroic journey have you followed after? Ki to Happiness keeps rolling on the river like Tina sang.

One of our students in our independent yoga teacher training program has taken a fascination in the posture called Scorpion. He watches us as we kick up onto our forearms, and then allow slow, steady balance to recalibrate our knees bending with the feet approaching the head. Then he attempts to do something similar at the wall for support.

When he’s with us in class, we spot him in the center away from the wall. His delight is contagious. He is doing things with his body he never imagined he could.

Is there something you’d like to do that you don’t think you would be able to? What kind of support might you need in order to practice? Ki to Happiness delights in other’s delight.

While we had a cool cloudy Spring day, my friends on Guam were battening their hatches against Typhoon Mawar. I reached out to them to let them know I am thinking of them and sending them love and support. I recall our times together during the super typhoon Paka in the late 90s, and pray they are spared from such devastation.

Big storms are humbling. They let us know we are not in charge. I am humbled again, simply in recalling the winds that were in excess of the instrument’s ability to record the speed for being broken in the gusts beyond 250mph in that double eye system.

What storms have you weathered? How humbled? Ki to Happiness is humbled by nature’s beauty, softness, and power.

In my time off yesterday I rolled up my sleeves and tackled a neighborhood garbage issue. The community cleanup took place the day before, and, despite my hopes that they would address it, it remained. So I strategized and prepared, and now it is resolved.

As I concluded, soft, gentle rain began. It felt like a blessing from nature. It has washed away all remnants of the debris and detritus.

How do you participate in your community? Do you know your neighbors? Ki to Happiness knows her neighbors appreciate every effort toward improving our community.