Not only did Bob’s sister and new man come to visit, but also one of the cousins. Sitting together at a local restaurant, we all easily chatted and shared pictures from our phones. Talking about family members who are no longer with us, it felt like they all showed up at our table. 
In my own family of origin, those who have passed away are alive and well inside my memory. When my brother and I get together with one of our cousins in St.Louis, we all fit together like puppies from the same litter. These relationships, renewed, bring the past to life. 
What’s your relationship with your cousins? What renews your sense of family? Ki to Happiness cherishes her memories and is happy to make some fresh ones.