When I notice myself getting irritated or annoyed, I back off the issue. I pause and consider what little changes I can make in myself. This results in progress for my nervous system, if nothing else.
Long ago, I left the ashram and its creature comforts. I consciously chose to participate in the scary, beautiful, unkept world to offer my self and serve as I’m able. I remind myself of my choice and take responsibility as I move our signage away from the beggars, reorganize the pantry, upgrade the compost bin, changing what I can.
What little changes could you make in your world? Are you willing to take responsibility for your choices? Ki to Happiness “chops wood and carries water”, taking responsibility and making the little changes that matter.