To track on our cats well-being, I purchased a scale for small animals.  Getting it set up, I saw the need for assistance, Bob and I teamed up for their first weigh in since our vet alerted us to the need.
Finding that all three cats are heading in the right direction, we are relieved. The scale removes the fear of uncertainty and replaces it with knowledge which gives us direction. We will continue with our program and track progress objectively which frees up from subjective opinions or judgments.
Can you be objective when dealing with your loved one? What helps free you from subjective opinions? Ki to Happiness balances subjectivity with objective measures.