20 years ago, my previous fiancé broke up with me. Our particular needs required that we allow ourselves to head in different directions with an intention to reunite. Instead, the distance and tension became too much. So on the phone, he “got me off his back”.
In the moment, it was very upsetting. And now, 20 years later, of course I am so glad that happened. My life as it is would not have been possible and I remained “on his back.”
What upset are you going through? How might it look to you in 20 years? Ki to Happiness has confidence in the healing power of time.